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**__Social Changes __**
 * There are many social changes that occur during puberty many of which are determined by the individual who is under the influence of changing hormones and emotional changes. The social changes come about through a mix of both physical and emotional changes. The increased strength and perseverance contribute to the increased change in social standings and independent choices. The main reason is due to the need for teens to break free of the restrictions of their parents. The increased need to learn how to live as an individual is one of great importance. Some of the changes that may occur are in a need for a sense of increased independence, risk taking behaviour and increased responsibility, peer pressure and importance of peers as well as conflicts with parents and siblings. **


 * __ Independence __**
 * One change that comes with the stages of puberty is the increased independence and need for responsibility. The need for a teenager to need their own time and space is in vast contrast to the younger age where all that children want to do is be around people to learn from them and they’re mistakes. During the stage of puberty it is normal for people of your age to try to figure out their own lot in life and what it means to work. You are probably looking for more responsibility and probably wanting to see how different challenges are taken and evolved into a constructive and purposeful experience. If you feel like you suddenly want to have more responsibility and don’t want others to do things for you then don’t worry it is just part of growing up and getting used to things. **


 * __ Peer pressure __**
 * One of the major changes to watch out for in puberty is the need for peers and the movement of peer pressure. This is not something to be afraid of as it has many benefits. What should be scared of though is when the pressure is unhelpful i.e. drink driving, speeding, sex and drugs. This kind of peer pressure is unhelpful as it can lead to a worse of life and does not fully allow you to be in control of what it is that you desire and require maturing into a socially responsible adult. Like said earlier don’t be afraid of peer pressure for it can help you think of new ideas allow you to cope with unexpected changes and allow for thorough communication. The need of peers will be something that is constantly needed throughout life. It allows you to be able to talk to someone you trust and have the ability to express feelings and secrets that are better left of the chest. A good peer group will always be there for you and is one that you feel comfortable to be around. The relationship between teens like yourself and their peers is one that many may struggle to understand but this is all part and parcel of being a kid. If you find one day that you do not fully enjoy the company that you are in and that you want to change it do not be worried it is a normal feeling to go through. **

This is the part of adolescents that worries many teens like yourself and rightly so for it is one of the most important to try to keep to an alright level. Risk taking behaviour reaches its height in most people around the age of puberty. Like you they probably wanted to push the boundaries and experiment with their new found freedom and choice making. What the problem is though is that many try to push the boundaries to an extent that could be harmful to either themselves or others. For instance the stealing of items and the use of speed driving are all examples where the nature puberty is put to the test. There is no problems having fun but when it becomes serious it is a real issue and needs to be dealt with immediately. There is nothing wrong with simply playing with the footy in good clothes although parents might think otherwise. This is a change that represents the pushing of boundaries and is one that is normal for all teenagers going through puberty. It is part of life and is usually seen as normal until it becomes dangerous to someone’s health. **
 * __ Risk Taking Behaviour __


 * __ Family Conflicts __**
 * It could be said that conflicts are with parents are a way of life for most teens and this is true. Many like yourself often wonder as to why parents have to be so protective and make all the decisions for their children. To a teen this is hard to understand with the changes that are going on for many do not see that what their parents want is the best for their children. It is often a difference of opinion that starts these family conflicts, this combine with the stresses of puberty could just be enough to push someone over the edge with a parent a friend or even a brother or sister. These are not something to be ashamed of as long as you realise what the argument is a bout and understand that is better to say sorry and get it over with than the endured guilt that both people will share. Most of the time that these issues are raised it is over trivial things like someone not cleaning a spilt drink or misplacing a favourite t-shirt etc. These are just part of being a growing person and learning how to cope with the complex world around us. **

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